What Is Love? A 6-Episode Journey From Disaster Dates to Happily Ever After
- Joao Nsita
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Introduction
We have all asked the question, usually after a third glass of wine or a particularly disastrous date: What is love? Is it the grand gestures we see in movies like Notting Hill? Is it the polite, stiff portraits of couples in museums (who, it turns out, often died of sepsis)? or is it something messier, louder, and infinitely more real?
That Love Podcast’s hit audio drama series, What Is Love?, explores this exact question through the eyes of a self-deprecating narrator who is desperately trying to figure it out. Over the course of six episodes, we follow him through the trenches of modern dating, his best friend’s imploding marriage, and his own fumbling attempts to find a connection that doesn't involve being used for a free lunch. It is a story about realizing that sometimes, the love of your life has been standing right in front of you—probably holding your hair back while you have the flu.
If you are looking for a binge-worthy series that blends laugh-out-loud comedy with genuine, tear-jerking moments of realization, this is the show for you. Here is your episode-by-episode guide to the series that proves love isn't about finding perfection; it's about finding your person.
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Episode 6: The Answer
The Vibe: Resolution, Heartwarming, messy Reality
The finale delivers the payoff we have all been waiting for. After a disastrous engagement to the wrong woman, the narrator finally wakes up. He breaks things off with Marissa (who throws the ring at his head—decent aim, honestly) and heads straight to the person who has been there all along: Kellie.
Why You Need to Listen: This episode flashes forward five years to show us what "happily ever after" actually looks like. Spoiler: it involves three chaotic kids (Emma, Jack, and screaming baby Sophia), money troubles, and fights about dishes. But it also reveals the narrator's 10 Truths About Love, a list compiled from the trenches of a real marriage. From holding space for each other's pain to laughing when a toddler flushes a toilet paper roll, this episode proves that love is showing up on the terrible days, not just the good ones. It is the perfect, tear-jerking conclusion to a messy journey.
Call to Action: Ready to hear the vows that actually matter? Stream Episode 6 on That Love Podcast today.
Episode 5: The Proposal
The Vibe: Chaos, Cringe, Revelation
In the penultimate episode, the narrator decides to propose to Marissa at a party. The plan is simple: good music, good vibes, and a romantic speech. The reality? Kellie and her book club crash the party, drunk and on a mission to sabotage.
The Turning Point: Between Kellie flashing a boob (which the narrator admits was "Hall of Fame caliber") and crying in the corner, the proposal goes off the rails. As Marissa accepts the ring, the narrator looks at his heartbroken best friend and gets hit with a montage of flashbacks—all the small, mundane moments that were actually love in disguise. It is the moment he realizes he just got engaged to the wrong person. It is chaotic, hilarious, and deeply emotional.
Episode 4: Me and You Forever
The Vibe: Awkward, Judgmental, Doubting
The narrator thinks he has finally found "The One" in Marissa, a former cheerleader he met in a library bathroom. They have been dating for two weeks (basically a lifetime), and he decides it is time to introduce her to the inner circle.
The Drama: The introduction at the book club goes horribly wrong. The women are cold, passive-aggressive, and one of them unearths a deer-hunting photo of Marissa from three years ago to use as ammunition. But the real tension is with Kellie, whose hatred for Marissa radiates off her like heat from asphalt. It’s an episode about the friction between new romance and old loyalty, raising the question: do your friends hate her because she's wrong for you, or because they are jealous?.
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Episode 3: Kellie's A Mess
The Vibe: Dramatic, Violent, Shocking
This episode takes a detour into the collapse of Kellie's marriage. Suspecting her husband of cheating, Kellie and the narrator catch him in a lie involving sleeping pills administered to their five-year-old so he can sneak out.
The Confrontation: When the narrator tries to intervene, he ends up with a broken nose, courtesy of the husband’s black belt skills. The husband leaves, then returns crying when his mistress (whose husband is in the Navy) becomes unavailable. It is a dark, messy look at a toxic relationship that contrasts sharply with the love the narrator is searching for. It also sets the stage for Kellie's eventual freedom and the narrator's protective instincts.
Episode 2: The Date
The Vibe: Hilarious, Relatable, Disastrous
Before Marissa, there was the blind date set up by the narrator's mother. With no photos available online (is she in witness protection?), the narrator goes in blind to a coffee shop meeting.
The Disaster: He trips immediately upon entering. Her first question isn't "Are you okay?" but "This meal is free, right?". It becomes clear she is just there for a free lunch to take home for later. It is a quintessential bad date story that anyone in the modern dating world will relate to—awkward, expensive, and completely devoid of chemistry.
Episode 1: What Is Love?
The Vibe: Philosophical, Introductory, Cynical
The series premiere establishes the narrator's quest. He looks at the examples of love around him: his father's infidelity, his mother's cynicism, and romantic movies that set unrealistic standards.
The Hook: He contrasts his parents' broken marriage with his ideal: Chandler and Monica from Friends. He introduces us to Kellie, his best friend who describes love as "walking through a field of wildflowers" despite being in a marriage with a man she doesn't respect. This episode lays the groundwork for the series, asking the big questions and setting the tone of humor mixed with longing.
Conclusion
What Is Love? isn't just a romance; it is a comedy of errors that ends in the most satisfying way possible. It teaches us that love isn't about the grand gestures or the perfect resume; it is about the person who remembers how you take your coffee and defends you even when you're wrong.
From broken noses to broken engagements, the narrator's journey is a reminder that the best love stories are often the ones we didn't see coming.
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10 FAQs
1. Who is the narrator of "What is Love?" The series is narrated by a self-deprecating man who starts the series single, cynical, and searching for the meaning of love amidst his parents' and friends' failed relationships.
2. Does the narrator end up with Kellie? Yes! After a failed engagement to Marissa, the narrator realizes Kellie has always been "home" to him. They get married and have three children.
3. Why did the narrator break up with Marissa? He realized during his proposal that he was actually in love with Kellie, who was crying at the party. He couldn't go through with marrying the wrong person.
4. What happened to Kellie's first husband? They divorced after he was caught cheating with multiple women. He was also abusive, breaking the narrator's nose during an argument.
5. How many episodes are in the series? There are 6 episodes in the What Is Love? series, taking the listener from the initial question to the final answer.
6. Is the series a comedy or a drama? It is a romantic comedy audio drama. It blends humorous disasters (like bad dates and gatecrashed parties) with serious themes like divorce and true love.
7. What is the "10 Truths About Love"? It is a list the narrator compiles in the final episode, summarizing the lessons he learned about love being messy, unglamorous, and about "showing up".
8. Who are Emma, Jack, and Sophia? They are the narrator and Kellie's three children revealed in the flash-forward in Episode 6.
9. What is the significance of "sandpaper on balls"? It is a joke Kellie made about the narrator's sense of humor. He realizes he loves her because she makes him laugh even when insulting him.
10. Where can I listen to the podcast? You can stream all episodes of What Is Love? on the That Love Podcast website or major podcast platforms.
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